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Wednesday, September 25, 2013

La Mercè 2013 and Getting Back To It

Hello, are there any readers out there? 

It's been over two weeks from our trip to the States, and I'm still not feeling myself. Why not? Going home and coming back for me creates a sense of mental and emotional disorientation due to not seem to belonging to neither "here nor there". While I don't really miss home per se, and I look back fondly at the memories that were made with loved ones this summer, I'm experiencing "re-entry culture shock"(which usually applies to one own's culture). For me, it's the difficulty of readapting to the Spanish culture and not being able to express myself as comfortably as I can when I'm in the US. It's been causing feelings of withdrawal, disillusionment, and just plain blahs. 

Fortunately, I have lots of dear friends here in Barcelona who understand me, and it's been a blessing to be able to talk about it with them. Soon enough, I'll feel more bicultural again, but it may take some time. Please send me prayers, good thoughts, awesome vibes, etc.

Lucky for my family, I didn't lock myself into a closet and go into hiding for the fall and winter. We went out with friends to celebrate La Mercè, an annual citywide festival celebrating the Catholic Feast Day, Our Lady of Mercy (although the religious aspect is completely removed from this holiday). Events are ongoing for a few days. Here's what we caught...
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We stepped out towards el Barri Gotic and was reminded of the awesomeness that is the Cathedral of Barcelona.
Lots of events were a-happenin' for La Mercé, drawing in thick crowds of tourists and locals.
We got together with my friend Julia and her family, who have kids almost exactly the same age as ours. (She also did a similar trip as us to the US!)
Mateo's first playdate with Cosimo.
Yesterday, a large Catalan-speaking robot greeted the humans. He says mechanically, "M'agrada La Mercé." (I like Mercé.)
Local pride lives on in Catalunya. Natives dressed in traditional garb marched through Ciutadella Park commemorating the siege and fall of Barcelona in 1714.
A large collection of gegants, or giants, were on display for everyone to admire.
A little girl tries to blend in.
I love this neckless cabezudo, or giant head. This must be a popular local figure who I don't know.
They come in all types.
Quite the sassy gegant.
I'd love to see what this bulbous-nosed cabezudo would look like on a person.
An endless line of personalities.
While looking for a decent place to eat, we walked to Plaza San Jaume where they happen to be making castellers, or human castles.
Two different castellers, one person per level.
A brief wave to the crowd so they can get the hell down now.
A feeling of glory and triumph.
The crowd cheers. Quite an emotional moment that even got yours truly a bit choked up.
I'll be back soon. Thanks for looking and happy Mercè!

Monday, September 16, 2013

Summing Up the Vacay

We've been back from our vacation in the States for about a week, and I am still kind of in a funk. While packing up and leaving the States was seamless, physically being in Barcelona easing back into my real life here has been an emotional challenge. Being away from the family and being an outsider is difficult, but overall, Barcelona still rocks my world!

Taking a break from blogging was also much needed as well as I'm trying to put less pressure on myself to "show" people what we've been doing. Instead while in California, I tried to revel in the moments spent at home with friends and family. I hadn't seen my parents in a year and a half. I needed it! We were able to see innumerable friends and relatives and enjoy the summer's dog days.

So, here are a few things we enjoyed doing...
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Here's the sister I never had. We spent lots of time with my cousin, Armilyn, and her family as much as possible.
Paloma had some swimming lessons for three weeks at the local community college. She moved up from Starfish level to Guppies level next year. Ooohh!
We also went to preschool storytime at Huntington Beach Public Library every week. Kids treat the storyteller like a rockstar. Rock on with that book!
They have the best kids' section. Unlike our local library here, kids can make reasonable noise. Wheeee!
I forget about the over-the-top Disney princess marketing in the States. I let this girl enjoy it for a moment.
 A blurry moment of the kids sleeping together like the angels they are ;-).
I love that Paloma and Mateo spent so much time with their cousins, who are around her age. All the kids hung on to me like barnacles...it was awesome!
Paloma really enjoyed the garden space in the yard. She planted a few moringa plants (a nutritious, popular vegetable in the Philippines) with my father and tended to them every day.
A natural green thumb, indeed! 
After four weeks of us three, we were eager for our one-fourth to arrive. Paloma waits for her dad at the airport like a lost orphan.
My brother Moses also flew in from Washington for a week. As a newbie radiation therapist, he doesn't get many vacation days from the clinic.
We went to the Tiki Beach Festival in Belmont Shore, a festive event celebrating Pacific Islander culture.
 After the event. Kids galore!
Armilyn also introduced us to Mother's Beach, a quaint, kid-friendly beach where no waves are there to terrorize little ones. And who knew it was only a five minutes' drive from my house? We were there a handful!
I also got to meet my friend Kim's little baby, Landon, who was just a few weeks old. Isn't he adorbs the way he's gazing at me?
We got to spend the night at a hotel in Camarillo with my uncle's generous discount from Marriott. Morning pool time again!
 The guys enjoy a father-son swim.
 We went with my dad to Catalina Island for a quick day trip getaway.
Paloma was over-enthused to go on the glass-bottom boat and checked out the many striped sea bass and more.
 My dad and Paloma also went fishing at the end of the pier and actually caught a fish!
Paloma also scored a handsome bicycle off Craigslist where she took advantage of the suburban space to ride.
 Paloma went to the movie theater for the first time to see  "Despicable Me 2" with her Papi and her Uncle Moses. Shhh...the show's about to begin!
Last, but definitely not least, we had a lovely barbecue birthday for Mateo in the garden with just the family. It was nice and intimate!
 And that's the gist of it! Hope you enjoyed and hugs to everyone!

Tuesday, August 27, 2013

Happy first birthday, Mateo!

The big day is finally here! The ONE. Numero uno. It's on!

I have a confession. When I was pregnant, I couldn't imagine having a little boy. In fact, even though I wanted one to even out the boy/girl ratio our family, I just wasn't that excited. I had a hard time relating to little boys. Having our little Paloma as a daughter, life was all about her and her girly things like flower clips, pretty dresses and gentle playing. And I didn't want to go through the difficult baby stages all over again!

But now that Mateo has been with us for a full year, I realized he's just as awesome and lovable as any girl. He is a laid-back little fellow, who is easy to please with food, a few interesting toys, and hugs. Man, the hugs. I love it!

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Day one. I thought my heart was going to burst with so much love. I was euphoric.
And now this month...baby has seven teeth and loves his solids. A good eater, he is!
Hanging at the pool with Auntie Army.
 He loves doors. Closing them, opening them, closing them. Not always exciting for the supervising adult.

The bath. So much fun!

Those hugs again.

The days of independent walking are nearing.
He was happy to have his papi around to play in the garden.
Feeling so relaxed with Auntie Army at the beach. Ah...the life.
 Watch out, world...
 ...because here comes Mateo!!!
*Squeal*! Honestly, it's been a true pleasure taking care of him. We love you, sweetness. Happy birthday, our amazing baby boy!

Tuesday, August 6, 2013

Mateo - The Eleventh Month

Hello! After a month hiatus, we are back to posting again. I can't believe I survived an almost 24-hour trip with my smallies. I am so thankful! 

As you can imagine, Paloma, Mateo, and I are happy to be Stateside visiting some family and friends, especially Lolo and Lola. :-) So far, we've taken it pretty easy at home and taking swimming lessons at our local community college. The summer weather has been quite mild, including some cloudy days in July and August?! We're enjoying it either way! 

So, here are a few (late) pictures of Mister M from the past month.
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Lounging on a swing in Barcelona. Strange to see him wearing a jacket. It must have been cool!
Looking like a big boy now at the playground.
Have I mentioned I'm crazy about my baby?
We helped Pau celebrate his fourth birthday too.
The fairy godparents.
Pau and Paloma loved spinning Mateo around...until he got dizzy. :-/
At home getting ready for our trip!
We made it! First few days enjoying the sunshine at a California beach hipster style.
The sand feels funny.
Wall-to-wall carpeting!
Mateo has learned to scooch his way around the house with his booty.
Peek-a-boo! The kids also inherited a ton of toys from Auntie Linda's nieces and nephews. Lucky ducks!
Thanks for visiting!